هذا صديق العائلة

You use this phrase primarily during introductions. It acts as a social shortcut. Instead of explaining how you met ten years ago, you use this. It immediately signals to others that this person is trustworthy. You can use it for men (صديق) or women (صديقة). Just remember to change the starting word to دي for a woman. It’s a warm way to make someone feel included in a group setting.

Use it at a big event like a wedding or a graduation. It’s perfect when you’re introducing a friend to your parents or older relatives. If a neighbor asks who that person is entering your house, this is the perfect answer. It’s also useful in professional settings if you are vouching for someone’s character. It tells the other person, 'I trust them with my life.'

Don't use this for someone you just met last month. It will feel forced and a bit weird. Also, avoid using it for a romantic partner you are trying to hide from your parents. People will see right through that! It’s not for casual acquaintances or 'work friends' you only see at the office. This phrase requires time and shared history to feel authentic.

In the Arab world, the family unit is the center of the universe. Being a 'friend of the family' means you’ve been vetted by the elders. Historically, families lived in close-knit neighborhoods where everyone knew everyone. This phrase is a remnant of that deep communal bond. It’s a sign of ultimate respect and loyalty. Sometimes, these friends are even more involved in family matters than actual cousins!

You might hear ده صاحب البيت (he is a friend of the house) in some regions. Another common one is زي أخويا (like my brother). In Levantine dialects, you might hear رفيق العيلة. If you want to emphasize how long you've known them, you say عشرة عمر (a companionship of a lifetime). All these variations carry that same 'chosen family' energy.