How was your weekend?
Weekend inquiry
Use this on Mondays to show polite interest in someone's life outside of work or school.
Em 15 segundos
- A standard Monday greeting to ask about someone's days off.
- Used to start small talk in offices, schools, or with friends.
- Usually requires a short, positive answer and a return question.
Significado
This is a friendly way to ask someone if they had a good time during their days off (Saturday and Sunday). It shows you are interested in their life outside of work or school.
Exemplos-chave
3 de 6Starting a Monday morning meeting
Good morning everyone! How was your weekend?
Good morning everyone! How was your weekend?
Texting a close friend on Sunday night
Hey! How was your weekend? Did you go to that concert?
Hey! How was your weekend? Did you go to that concert?
Talking to a barista while getting coffee
How was your weekend? Busy at the shop?
How was your weekend? Busy at the shop?
Contexto cultural
The concept of the 'weekend' as a two-day break became standard in the early 20th century. This phrase evolved as the primary 'Monday morning ritual' in office culture. In the UK and US, it is often used as a polite greeting where a detailed answer isn't actually expected.
The 'Return' Rule
Always ask the question back! Even if you don't care, saying 'How about yours?' is the golden rule of English small talk.
Don't Over-share
Unless you are talking to a best friend, keep your answer under 30 seconds. Most people use this as a greeting, not an interview.
Em 15 segundos
- A standard Monday greeting to ask about someone's days off.
- Used to start small talk in offices, schools, or with friends.
- Usually requires a short, positive answer and a return question.
What It Means
This phrase is the ultimate social lubricant in English-speaking cultures. It is a polite way to bridge the gap between the weekend and the new week. When you ask this, you are not looking for a minute-by-minute itinerary. You are simply checking the 'vibe' of their time off. It is a signal that you see them as a person, not just a coworker or a classmate.
How To Use It
Use it as a greeting on Monday mornings or Tuesday afternoons. You can say it while walking to your desk or waiting for a meeting to start. Keep your answer brief unless you are close friends. A simple It was great, thanks! How about yours? is the perfect response. If you did nothing but watch TV, just say It was nice and relaxing. No one needs to know you ate a whole pizza alone.
When To Use It
Monday is the prime time for this question. It works perfectly at the office coffee machine or when texting a friend you haven't seen in a few days. It is a great way to start a conversation without being too deep. Use it with your boss, your neighbor, or the barista at your local cafe. It makes you look social and approachable.
When NOT To Use It
Do not use this on a Friday; it sounds like you are time-traveling. Avoid using it if someone just told you they had a family emergency. It can feel a bit robotic if you ask it on a Thursday. Also, do not ask this if you are in a massive rush. You might get stuck listening to a 10-minute story about someone's cat.
Cultural Background
In Western culture, the 'weekend' is sacred. It represents freedom from the daily grind. Asking about it is a standard social ritual. In places like the US or UK, failing to ask this on a Monday can sometimes seem cold. It is part of 'small talk,' which is a vital social skill. It helps build rapport before diving into serious topics.
Common Variations
If you want to sound more casual, try Did you do anything fun this weekend? For a very short version, just ask How was your break? If it is a long holiday, you might say How was your long weekend? You can also get specific with How was your Saturday? if you know they had a big event planned. Each one shows a different level of interest.
Notas de uso
This phrase is safe for all levels of formality. The only 'gotcha' is the timing—stick to Mondays and Tuesdays for the best results.
The 'Return' Rule
Always ask the question back! Even if you don't care, saying 'How about yours?' is the golden rule of English small talk.
Don't Over-share
Unless you are talking to a best friend, keep your answer under 30 seconds. Most people use this as a greeting, not an interview.
The 'Good' Default
In many English-speaking cultures, even if your weekend was boring, the standard answer is 'Good' or 'Quiet.' It's a social script!
Exemplos
6Good morning everyone! How was your weekend?
Good morning everyone! How was your weekend?
Sets a friendly tone before starting business talk.
Hey! How was your weekend? Did you go to that concert?
Hey! How was your weekend? Did you go to that concert?
Shows specific interest in their planned activities.
How was your weekend? Busy at the shop?
How was your weekend? Busy at the shop?
Polite small talk with service staff.
So, how was your weekend? Or should I ask how much sleep you lost?
So, how was your weekend? Or should I ask how much sleep you lost?
Used when you know the person had a wild or stressful time.
I know things have been tough. How was your weekend? Did you get some rest?
I know things have been tough. How was your weekend? Did you get some rest?
Used with empathy to check on someone's well-being.
I hope you had a productive week. How was your weekend?
I hope you had a productive week. How was your weekend?
Slightly more formal, used to build rapport in writing.
Teste-se
Choose the best response to 'How was your weekend?' if you want to be polite but brief.
Person A: How was your weekend? Person B: ___
The most common and polite way to respond is to give a short positive answer and ask the question back.
When is the most appropriate time to use this phrase?
You see your coworker at the coffee machine on ___. You ask: 'How was your weekend?'
Monday morning is the standard time to ask about the weekend that just passed.
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Recursos visuais
Formality of 'How was your weekend?'
Used with best friends.
Weekend good?
The standard way to ask anyone.
How was your weekend?
Used in professional emails.
I hope you enjoyed your weekend.
Where to use 'How was your weekend?'
Office Kitchen
Chatting while making tea.
Zoom Meeting
Waiting for everyone to join.
Gym
Seeing a regular workout partner.
Text Message
Checking in with a cousin.
Perguntas frequentes
11 perguntasIt is a friendly inquiry about your Saturday and Sunday. It is used to start a conversation after a break.
Yes, but keep it light. You can say It was a bit busy or I didn't get much rest instead of sharing deep problems.
Absolutely! It is a very common and professional way to build a relationship with a manager.
It is still okay! It just means the person hasn't seen you since last week. Answer normally.
It is neutral. It works in almost every situation, from a casual hang-out to a business meeting.
You can say It was nice and quiet or I just relaxed. These are very common and positive responses.
Yes, it is considered polite to say How about you? or And yours? after you answer.
Yes, it is a great opening line for a Monday email. For example: Hi Sarah, I hope you had a great weekend.
You might hear Get up to much this weekend? in the UK or Australia, which is a more casual version.
Just laugh and say It went by too fast! It is a relatable and funny way to answer.
A little bit. By Wednesday, people are usually focused on the current week. Try How is your week going? instead.
Frases relacionadas
Did you have a good one?
A very casual way to ask if someone enjoyed their weekend or an event.
Any plans for the weekend?
The Friday version of the phrase, asking about future plans.
How's your week going?
A mid-week version of the phrase used on Wednesdays or Thursdays.
Catch you later.
A common way to end the 'weekend' small talk and get back to work.
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