Can you wait for me?

You can use this phrase on its own or add a reason. For example, Can you wait for me? I forgot my keys. It works perfectly in person or over the phone. If you are in a big hurry, you might say it quickly. If you feel bad about being late, say it with a soft, rising tone.

• Use it when walking with friends who move too fast.
• Use it when you need to finish a quick task before leaving.
• Use it at the elevator when the doors are closing.
• Use it when you are finishing a phone call and need a friend to stay put.
• It is perfect for those 'oops, I forgot something' moments.

Avoid using this with a high-ranking boss in a very formal setting. It might sound a bit too demanding or disorganized. Don't use it if you are going to be more than 15 minutes late. At that point, you should apologize and explain the delay instead. Also, don't use it if you are just being lazy—people's time is valuable!

In many English-speaking cultures, punctuality is highly valued. Asking someone to wait is a small favor. It shows you value their company enough to want to be with them. However, Americans and Brits often feel a bit 'guilty' asking this. You might hear them add sorry or just a second to soften the request. It’s a social contract: I wait for you today, you wait for me tomorrow.

• Wait up! (Very casual, usually while walking or running).
• Hold on a second. (Good for short pauses).
• Give me a minute. (Focuses on the time you need).
• Would you mind waiting? (A more polite, formal version).