Ehre erweisen

Grammatically, this phrase requires the dative case for the person being honored. You say jemandem die Ehre erweisen. The verb erweisen means 'to show' or 'to prove.' It is a bit formal, so you’ll usually see it in complete, well-structured sentences. You can also use it to describe attending an event simply because your presence shows respect to the host.

Use this in high-stakes social situations. It is very common at funerals, where people 'pay their last respects' (die letzte Ehre erweisen). You’ll also hear it at award ceremonies or big anniversaries. If you meet a legendary professor or a famous artist, this phrase fits perfectly. It’s for moments that feel 'big' and meaningful.

Do not use this for trivial daily tasks. If your roommate finally does the dishes, don't say you're 'honoring' them. It would sound incredibly sarcastic or like you’re in a period drama. Avoid it in casual texts unless you are intentionally being dramatic for a laugh. It’s too heavy for a quick coffee catch-up with friends.

German culture has a long history of formal etiquette and 'Ehre' (honor). In the past, honor was something you defended with duels! Today, it’s much softer but still carries weight. It reflects the German value of 'Wertschätzung' (appreciation). Showing up to a formal event is seen as a way to 'render honor' to the occasion itself.

The most famous variation is die letzte Ehre erweisen. This is used exclusively for attending a funeral or memorial service. You might also hear jemandem die Ehre geben, which is slightly more old-fashioned. Sometimes people use it ironically with friends, like asking someone to 'do them the honor' of passing the salt.