你的爱好是什么？

Use this phrase when you want to move past small talk. It is a great bridge to deeper conversations. You can drop it into a chat after introducing yourselves. Just say the words clearly with a rising tone at the end for the question. If you want to sound even more natural, you can add 呢 (ne) at the end.

This is perfect for first dates or meeting new classmates. Use it at a networking event to find common ground. It works well when texting a new friend to keep the chat alive. It is also a safe bet during language exchange meetups. Basically, use it whenever you want to stop talking about the weather.

Avoid using this in high-pressure professional interviews unless they ask first. It might feel a bit too personal during a very formal business negotiation. Do not use it if someone is clearly busy or stressed. It is a 'leisure' question, so keep it for relaxed environments. Also, don't ask it repeatedly if they've already told you they love cats.

In China, hobbies are a big part of social identity. Traditionally, hobbies were the 'four arts': calligraphy, painting, chess, and music. Today, it is more likely to be gaming, 'city walking,' or 'hot pot hunting.' Asking this shows you care about their life outside of work or study. It is a sign of genuine interest in their happiness.

If you want to sound more casual, try 你喜欢做什么？ (What do you like to do?). For a more formal vibe, use 您有什么兴趣爱好吗？ (Do you have any interests or hobbies?). If you are talking to a group, change 你 to 你们. You can also ask 你平时喜欢干什么？ which means 'What do you usually do?'. This version feels very 'local' and relaxed.