give someone the benefit of the doubt
To believe someone's statement without proof
Wörtlich: To give someone the advantage of a lack of certainty
Use this when you decide to trust someone's word because you can't prove they are lying.
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- Choosing to believe someone despite a lack of evidence.
- Assuming positive intentions instead of jumping to negative conclusions.
- A social 'gift' of trust to avoid unnecessary conflict.
Bedeutung
When you choose to believe someone is telling the truth or has good intentions, even if you aren't 100% sure. It is about being kind and trusting them instead of being suspicious.
Wichtige Beispiele
3 von 6A friend is late to lunch
He's usually on time, so I'll give him the benefit of the doubt regarding the traffic.
He's usually on time, so I'll believe his excuse about the traffic.
A coworker misses a meeting
I'm going to give Sarah the benefit of the doubt; she might have a family emergency.
I'll assume Sarah has a good reason for missing the meeting.
Texting a friend who sent a short reply
Her text seemed cold, but I'll give her the benefit of the doubt—she's probably just busy.
I won't get offended by her short text; she's likely just occupied.
Kultureller Hintergrund
The expression originates from the legal principle of 'reasonable doubt' in the British judicial system. It became a common idiom in the mid-19th century as a way to describe social grace and interpersonal trust. In English-speaking cultures, offering this 'benefit' is seen as a mark of a reasonable and emotionally mature person.
The 'Three Strikes' Rule
Culturally, Americans often give the benefit of the doubt once or twice. If someone fails a third time, the 'benefit' usually expires!
Don't sound like a pushover
If you use this too much for the same person, you might sound like you are making excuses for their bad behavior.
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- Choosing to believe someone despite a lack of evidence.
- Assuming positive intentions instead of jumping to negative conclusions.
- A social 'gift' of trust to avoid unnecessary conflict.
What It Means
Imagine your friend is late for dinner. You could be angry. You could think they are lazy. Instead, you decide to believe their excuse about traffic. That is giving someone the benefit of the doubt. You choose to trust them. You do this when there is no proof. It is a mental gift you give to others. It keeps relationships smooth and happy.
How To Use It
You usually use this phrase with the verb give. You can say, "I'll give him the benefit of the doubt." It works as a noun phrase. You are describing a choice you made. It shows you are being fair. It shows you are being a bigger person. Use it when a situation is unclear. Use it when you want to avoid a fight.
When To Use It
Use it at work when a colleague misses a deadline. Maybe they had a rough night? Use it with your partner. If they forgot to do the dishes, don't scream. Give them the benefit of the doubt. Maybe they were just exhausted. It is perfect for texting too. If a reply sounds rude, assume it was a typo. It saves a lot of unnecessary drama.
When NOT To Use It
Do not use this for serious crimes. If someone steals your car, don't give them the benefit of the doubt. That is just dangerous! Also, avoid it if someone lies to you constantly. If they have fooled you ten times, stop giving the benefit. At that point, they are just taking advantage of you. Use your common sense here.
Cultural Background
This phrase actually comes from the legal world. In English law, you are "innocent until proven guilty." If the jury is confused, they must let the person go. This is the "doubt" that benefits the accused. Over time, it moved from the courtroom to the living room. Now, it is a sign of a polite, trusting society. It reflects the Western value of fairness.
Common Variations
You might hear people say "I'm giving her the benefit." They often drop the "of the doubt" in casual talk. Sometimes people say "Let's give them the benefit." It means the same thing. You can also say "They don't deserve the benefit of the doubt." This means you are officially suspicious. It is a strong way to say you don't trust someone.
Nutzungshinweise
The phrase is neutral and versatile. However, telling someone to their face 'I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt' can sound a bit patronizing, as it highlights that you have reasons to suspect them.
The 'Three Strikes' Rule
Culturally, Americans often give the benefit of the doubt once or twice. If someone fails a third time, the 'benefit' usually expires!
Don't sound like a pushover
If you use this too much for the same person, you might sound like you are making excuses for their bad behavior.
The Silent 'Doubt'
In very casual UK or US English, you can just say 'I'll give him the benefit.' Everyone will know exactly what you mean.
Beispiele
6He's usually on time, so I'll give him the benefit of the doubt regarding the traffic.
He's usually on time, so I'll believe his excuse about the traffic.
Shows trust based on past good behavior.
I'm going to give Sarah the benefit of the doubt; she might have a family emergency.
I'll assume Sarah has a good reason for missing the meeting.
Professional way to stay neutral before getting facts.
Her text seemed cold, but I'll give her the benefit of the doubt—she's probably just busy.
I won't get offended by her short text; she's likely just occupied.
Used to prevent digital misunderstandings.
The restaurant is packed, so let's give the waiter the benefit of the doubt.
Let's be patient with the waiter because it is very busy.
Shows empathy in a service environment.
I'll give you the benefit of the doubt this time, but show me the scraps!
I'll pretend to believe you for now, but I need proof later.
A playful, slightly skeptical use of the phrase.
I want to give you the benefit of the doubt, but this is the third year in a row.
I want to believe you forgot by accident, but it's hard now.
Expresses hurt while acknowledging the concept of trust.
Teste dich selbst
Choose the correct word to complete the idiom.
I don't have proof he's lying, so I'll give him the ___ of the doubt.
The standard idiom is always 'the benefit of the doubt'.
Which verb is most commonly used with this phrase?
She decided to ___ her sister the benefit of the doubt.
You 'give' the benefit to someone else as a gesture of trust.
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Visuelle Lernhilfen
Formality of 'Benefit of the Doubt'
Used with friends/family.
I'll give him the benefit.
Standard daily use.
Let's give them the benefit of the doubt.
Workplace or legal contexts.
We should afford him the benefit of the doubt.
When to Give the Benefit
Late Colleague
Assume they hit traffic.
Vague Text
Assume they are busy.
New Acquaintance
Assume they are nice.
Strange Excuse
Believe it once.
Häufig gestellte Fragen
10 FragenNot necessarily. It means you are *choosing* to act as if you believe them to keep things positive, even if you have a small suspicion.
Yes, it is perfectly acceptable. For example: We are willing to give the vendor the benefit of the doubt regarding the shipping delay.
Yes, people often just say give them the benefit. It's very common in spoken English.
The opposite would be assuming the worst or being cynical.
Yes, it comes from the idea that a defendant is innocent if there is any 'reasonable doubt' about their guilt.
Usually, no. You don't give yourself the benefit of the doubt; you ask others to give it to you: Please give me the benefit of the doubt.
It can be slightly passive-aggressive if said directly to the person. It implies you don't fully trust them.
You can say, I've given him the benefit of the doubt too many times. This means your patience has run out.
No, it is almost exclusively used for people and their intentions or statements.
It is used equally and understood perfectly in both dialects.
Verwandte Redewendungen
Take someone at their word
To believe exactly what someone says without checking.
Innocent until proven guilty
The legal origin of the concept of doubt favoring the accused.
Jump to conclusions
The opposite; to judge someone quickly without all the facts.
Read between the lines
To look for a hidden meaning instead of just trusting the words.
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