化解突出矛盾

You use this phrase when you want to sound like a problem-solver. It acts as a verb phrase in a sentence. Usually, a leader, a mediator, or a brave friend is the subject. You '化解' the '矛盾'. It sounds very capable and proactive. It implies you have the social skills to handle heat. Use it when the stakes are high.

This is perfect for professional settings. Use it in a performance review or a meeting. It also works for serious family drama. If two cousins haven't spoken in years, you might try to 化解突出矛盾. It’s great for news reports or political discussions too. It shows you understand the gravity of the situation.

Don't use this for tiny, silly things. If your friends are arguing about pizza toppings, this is too heavy. Using it there would sound sarcastic or overly dramatic. Avoid it in very casual, slang-heavy conversations. It’s a bit too 'adult' for a rowdy bar night. It requires a certain level of seriousness to feel natural.

In Chinese culture, 'Harmony' (和) is the ultimate goal. Conflict is often seen as a disruption of the natural order. The word 矛盾 actually comes from an ancient story. A man tried to sell a spear that could pierce anything. He also sold a shield that could block anything. Someone asked: 'What happens if you hit the shield with the spear?' That 'contradiction' is the root of the word. Resolving it is seen as a sign of high emotional intelligence.

You can shorten it to 化解矛盾 for a more general feel. If the conflict is deep, you might say 化解深层次矛盾. If you are just talking about people, 化解纠纷 (resolving disputes) is a common neighbor. But 突出 adds that 'urgent' flavor that makes people pay attention.