ما اقتراحك؟

You can drop this phrase at the end of almost any dilemma. First, state the situation. Then, add the phrase. For example, 'I want to travel this summer, but I’m broke. إيه اقتراحك؟'. It’s short, punchy, and very easy to pronounce. If you are talking to a woman, the ending changes slightly to إيه اقتراحكِ؟ (iqtirahik). It’s like a Swiss Army knife for social interactions.

Use it at a restaurant when the menu looks like a novel. Use it with your friends when you’re all staring at each other wondering what to do on a Friday night. It’s also great in professional settings that aren't too stuffy. If a project is hitting a wall, asking a colleague إيه اقتراحك؟ can break the ice. It’s perfect for group texts when everyone is indecisive.

Avoid using this in a very formal legal or academic setting. In those cases, Modern Standard Arabic is better. Also, don't use it if you are the one supposed to be giving orders. If you are a drill sergeant, you probably shouldn't ask your recruits for suggestions! Finally, don't use it if you’ve already made up your mind. People can smell a fake request for input a mile away.

In Arabic-speaking cultures, the concept of 'Shura' (consultation) is huge. Decisions are rarely made in a vacuum. Asking for a suggestion is seen as a sign of respect and humility. It shows you aren't an ego-maniac. It’s a way to build 'asabiyyah' or social glue. By asking, you are inviting the other person into your inner circle of trust.

You will often hear إيه رأيك؟ (What’s your opinion?). This is very similar but slightly more general. Another one is عندك فكرة؟ (Do you have an idea?). In more formal Egyptian, you might hear حضرتك تقترح إيه؟ (What do you suggest, sir/ma'am?). In the Gulf, they might say وش شورك؟ which has a more traditional, advisory feel.