I owe you an apology
Apology due
Literalmente: I (subject) owe (have a debt to) you (object) an apology (the act of saying sorry).
Use this phrase to show maturity and sincerity when you realize you've done something wrong.
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- A sincere way to admit you made a mistake.
- Used to start a serious conversation about saying sorry.
- Shows you take full responsibility for your actions.
Significado
This phrase is a sincere way to tell someone you did something wrong and want to apologize. It means you recognize you made a mistake and you are ready to say sorry.
Exemplos-chave
3 de 6Being late to a lunch date
I owe you an apology for keeping you waiting at the restaurant.
I owe you an apology for keeping you waiting at the restaurant.
Missing a work deadline
I owe you an apology; I didn't finish the report on time.
I owe you an apology; I didn't finish the report on time.
Realizing you were rude during an argument
I owe you an apology for what I said last night.
I owe you an apology for what I said last night.
Contexto cultural
This expression reflects the cultural value of personal accountability in English-speaking societies. It gained popularity in the mid-20th century as a more formal, sincere alternative to a simple 'sorry.' In many English-speaking workplaces, using this phrase is considered a mark of professional maturity and leadership.
Don't stop there!
Always follow the phrase with 'for [reason]'. Just saying the phrase alone can feel like you are waiting for the other person to do the work.
The 'But' Trap
Never say 'I owe you an apology, but...' Adding a 'but' cancels out the apology and sounds like you are making excuses.
Em 15 segundos
- A sincere way to admit you made a mistake.
- Used to start a serious conversation about saying sorry.
- Shows you take full responsibility for your actions.
What It Means
I owe you an apology is a powerful way to start a conversation about a mistake. It means you have realized your error. You feel like you have a 'debt' of kindness to pay back. It is deeper than a quick sorry. It shows you have thought about your actions. It tells the other person they deserve better treatment.
How To Use It
Use this phrase at the very beginning of your sentence. It acts as a polite warning that a serious apology is coming. You can use it for small things like being late. You can also use it for big things like hurting a friend's feelings. It works best when you follow it with the reason why. For example, I owe you an apology for missing your call. It sounds very sincere and mature.
When To Use It
Use it when you want to show you are taking responsibility. It is perfect for professional settings when you miss a deadline. It works beautifully in friendships after a silly argument. Use it when you haven't seen someone for a while. It helps clear the air before you start a new conversation. It is a great 'reset button' for any relationship.
When NOT To Use It
Do not use this for tiny accidents. If you bump into someone on the bus, just say sorry. Using this phrase for small things can sound too dramatic. Don't use it if you aren't actually sorry. People can hear if you are being fake. Also, avoid it in extreme emergencies where speed is more important than politeness.
Cultural Background
In English-speaking cultures, admitting you are wrong is highly respected. This phrase is seen as a sign of high emotional intelligence. It moves the focus from the mistake to the solution. It is a very 'Western' way of being direct but polite. It helps avoid 'saving face' and focuses on fixing the bond. It became popular because it sounds less defensive than other phrases.
Common Variations
I think I owe you an apology(makes it softer)I really owe you an apology(adds more emotion)I owe you a huge apology(for big mistakes)I owe you one(Careful! This usually means you owe a favor, not an apology).
Notas de uso
This phrase is highly versatile across all levels of formality. The main 'gotcha' is using it for trivial matters; save it for when you genuinely feel you have crossed a line or failed an expectation.
Don't stop there!
Always follow the phrase with 'for [reason]'. Just saying the phrase alone can feel like you are waiting for the other person to do the work.
The 'But' Trap
Never say 'I owe you an apology, but...' Adding a 'but' cancels out the apology and sounds like you are making excuses.
The 'Debt' Metaphor
English speakers use 'owe' because they view social mistakes as a 'debt' that needs to be paid back to restore balance in the friendship.
Exemplos
6I owe you an apology for keeping you waiting at the restaurant.
I owe you an apology for keeping you waiting at the restaurant.
A polite way to acknowledge someone's time was wasted.
I owe you an apology; I didn't finish the report on time.
I owe you an apology; I didn't finish the report on time.
Shows professional accountability to a boss or colleague.
I owe you an apology for what I said last night.
I owe you an apology for what I said last night.
A sincere way to mend a relationship after a fight.
Hey! I owe you a huge apology for missing your birthday!
Hey! I owe you a huge apology for missing your birthday!
Adding 'huge' makes it feel more personal and urgent.
I owe you an apology... and a new pizza. I ate your leftovers.
I owe you an apology... and a new pizza. I ate your leftovers.
Lightens the mood while still admitting the 'crime.'
I owe you an apology for the delay in our communication.
I owe you an apology for the delay in our communication.
Very professional and takes the blame away from the company as a whole.
Teste-se
Choose the best word to complete the phrase for a big mistake.
I owe you a ___ apology for losing your favorite book.
We use 'huge' or 'big' to emphasize that we feel very bad about the mistake.
Which preposition usually follows the phrase to explain the reason?
I owe you an apology ___ being so rude earlier.
We use 'for' followed by a gerund (-ing) or a noun to explain why we are apologizing.
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Recursos visuais
Formality of Saying Sorry
Quick and informal
My bad!
Standard apology
I'm sorry.
Taking responsibility
I owe you an apology.
Very serious/Professional
Please accept my sincerest apologies.
When to say 'I owe you an apology'
At Work
Late for a meeting
With Friends
Forgot a secret
Family
Spilled juice on rug
Texting
Replied 3 days late
Perguntas frequentes
10 perguntasIt is neutral to slightly formal. You can use it with your boss or your best friend, and it always sounds respectful.
Technically yes, but it sounds very unnatural. Stick to I owe you an apology for a better flow.
I'm sorry is an emotion. I owe you an apology is an admission of a mistake and feels more deliberate.
You can say I appreciate that or Thank you, I accept your apology. If it's not a big deal, say Don't worry about it!
Yes! It is actually one of the best phrases for old mistakes. Try: I've been thinking, and I owe you an apology for what happened last year.
Absolutely. It is a very common and professional way to start an email when you have made a mistake.
No! I owe you one means 'I owe you a favor' because you helped me. Don't mix them up!
Yes, but be careful. This sounds very confrontational and angry. Only use it if you are truly upset.
No, that's too much. A simple Oh, sorry! or My apologies! is better for physical accidents.
Adding I think makes it sound a bit more humble and less aggressive. It's a very common way to soften the sentence.
Frases relacionadas
My apologies
A slightly more formal way to say sorry.
I take full responsibility
A formal way to say the mistake was 100% your fault.
Please forgive me
A more emotional plea for someone to stop being angry.
I didn't mean to
Explaining that the mistake was not on purpose.
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