राय लेना
to seek opinion
حرفيًا: Opinion to take
Use `rai lena` to show you value someone's perspective before making your next move.
في 15 ثانية
- To ask someone for their thoughts or advice before deciding.
- A respectful way to involve others in your decision process.
- Highly versatile for both office meetings and casual chats.
المعنى
This phrase is used when you want to ask someone for their advice or perspective before making a decision. It is the Hindi equivalent of 'picking someone's brain' or simply asking, 'What do you think?'
أمثلة رئيسية
3 من 6Buying a new dress
Kya main is rang ke baare mein tumhari rai le sakti hoon?
Can I get your opinion on this color?
In a business meeting
Hamein is project par expert ki rai leni chahiye.
We should get an expert's opinion on this project.
Texting a friend about a movie
Bhai, nayi movie kaisi hai? Teri rai chahiye.
Brother, how is the new movie? I need your opinion.
خلفية ثقافية
In the Indian subcontinent, the concept of 'Sammati' (consensus) is deeply rooted. Asking for a 'rai' is a social lubricant that acknowledges the collective wisdom of the family or peer group. It is often the first step in the long process of 'Panchayat' style decision-making where everyone gets a say.
The Gender Rule
The word `rai` is feminine. So, if you say 'I want to take an opinion', it's `rai leni hai`, not `rai lena hai`.
Don't confuse with 'Advice'
While similar, `salah` (advice) is stronger than `rai` (opinion). Use `rai` when you just want to know what they think, not necessarily what you MUST do.
في 15 ثانية
- To ask someone for their thoughts or advice before deciding.
- A respectful way to involve others in your decision process.
- Highly versatile for both office meetings and casual chats.
What It Means
Rai lena is all about gathering perspectives. In Hindi, rai means opinion and lena means to take. When you use them together, you are actively seeking someone's input. It is not just about listening. It is about valuing what the other person thinks. It suggests you haven't made up your mind yet. You are open to new ideas.
How To Use It
You use this phrase like a standard verb. You can say Mujhe tumhari rai leni hai (I want to get your opinion). It works perfectly in both professional and personal settings. Just remember to use the right pronoun for the person you are asking. If it's a boss, use aapki rai. If it's a best friend, teri rai works fine. It is a very flexible and 'safe' phrase to use anywhere.
When To Use It
Use this when you are at a crossroads. Maybe you are buying a new phone. Perhaps you are choosing a career path. It is great for meetings when you want to sound collaborative. Use it when texting a friend about a crush. 'Should I text back?' is a classic rai lena moment. It shows you respect the other person's wisdom.
When NOT To Use It
Do not use this if you have already decided. If you are just telling someone what you are doing, that is not rai lena. Also, avoid it for very factual things. You don't 'seek an opinion' on what 2+2 is. If someone is angry, asking for their rai might feel like you are mocking them. Use it only when you actually want an answer.
Cultural Background
In Indian culture, decision-making is often a group activity. Whether it is a wedding or a grocery brand, everyone has an opinion. Seeking a 'rai' is a sign of humility. It shows you aren't arrogant. Elders especially love it when you ask for their rai. It makes them feel respected and included in your life. It is the glue of Indian social circles.
Common Variations
You might hear mashwara karna which is more formal and Urdu-influenced. Then there is salah lena, which feels more like seeking 'advice' rather than just an 'opinion'. If you are just chatting, people might say puchna (to ask). But rai lena hits that perfect sweet spot. It sounds thoughtful without being overly heavy or dramatic.
ملاحظات الاستخدام
The phrase is highly versatile across all registers. The only 'gotcha' is the grammatical gender agreement—ensure your verbs and adjectives are feminine to match `rai`.
The Gender Rule
The word `rai` is feminine. So, if you say 'I want to take an opinion', it's `rai leni hai`, not `rai lena hai`.
Don't confuse with 'Advice'
While similar, `salah` (advice) is stronger than `rai` (opinion). Use `rai` when you just want to know what they think, not necessarily what you MUST do.
The 'Elder' Secret
If you want to win over an Indian mother-in-law or boss, ask for their `rai` even if you don't need it. It’s the ultimate sign of respect!
أمثلة
6Kya main is rang ke baare mein tumhari rai le sakti hoon?
Can I get your opinion on this color?
A classic casual use among friends while shopping.
Hamein is project par expert ki rai leni chahiye.
We should get an expert's opinion on this project.
Shows professionalism and a collaborative spirit.
Bhai, nayi movie kaisi hai? Teri rai chahiye.
Brother, how is the new movie? I need your opinion.
Very informal and direct, typical for close friends.
Ghar mein sabki rai lene ke baad bhi, mummy wahi karengi jo unhe chahiye!
Even after taking everyone's opinion at home, Mom will do exactly what she wants!
A relatable joke about family dynamics in India.
Main koi bhi bada kadam uthane se pehle apne pita ki rai leta hoon.
I take my father's opinion before taking any big step.
Reflects deep respect and emotional bonding.
Sharma ji, zara is mamle mein apni rai dijiye.
Sharma ji, please give your opinion on this matter.
A polite way to engage a neighbor or elder.
اختبر نفسك
Choose the correct form of the verb to complete the sentence.
Mujhe naye ghar ke liye aapki ___ hai.
Since 'rai' is feminine, the verb 'lena' changes to 'leni' to match it.
Complete the sentence to ask a friend for their thoughts.
Kya main tumhari ___ sakta hoon?
'Rai le' is the correct root for 'to take an opinion' in this context.
🎉 النتيجة: /2
وسائل تعلم بصرية
Formality Spectrum of Seeking Input
Asking a sibling
Bata na, kya karun?
Standard 'Rai Lena'
Mujhe tumhari rai chahiye.
Professional advice
Hamein aapki rai ki avashyakta hai.
When to use Rai Lena
Shopping
Which shoes look better?
Work
Reviewing a presentation
Relationships
Asking for dating advice
Food
What should we order?
الأسئلة الشائعة
10 أسئلةIt means 'opinion' or 'viewpoint'. In a sentence like Meri rai mein..., it means 'In my opinion...'
It is neutral. You can use it with your boss (Aapki rai) or your younger brother (Teri rai).
Yes, you can say Doctor ki rai lena to mean getting a medical opinion.
Rai is an opinion, while salah is more like formal advice or a suggestion. You ask for a rai to know a thought, and a salah to know an action.
You could say Mujhe tumhari rai ki zaroorat nahi hai, but be careful—it's quite rude!
It has roots in both, but it is universally used in standard Hindi (Khariboli) today.
Absolutely. You can say Sabki rai leni chahiye (Everyone's opinion should be taken).
Using the masculine verb form. Remember, it's rai leni because rai is feminine.
Not exactly slang, but people might just say Tu bata (You tell me) in very casual settings.
Yes, it is perfectly acceptable in formal writing to discuss public opinion or expert views.
عبارات ذات صلة
सलाह लेना (salah lena)
to seek advice
सुझाव देना (sujhav dena)
to give a suggestion
विचार विमर्श करना (vichar vimarsh karna)
to deliberate/discuss
मशवरा करना (mashwara karna)
to consult/seek counsel
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