ليس من شأني

You use this phrase when someone tries to pull you into drama. It works best when you want to remain neutral. Just drop it into a conversation when gossip starts. It’s a great way to avoid taking sides in an argument. You can use it to deflect questions about things you shouldn't know. It’s short, punchy, and very effective.

Use it at the office when colleagues are whispering about the boss. Use it with friends when they ask for your take on family drama. It’s perfect for texting when a group chat gets too messy. If a neighbor asks why another neighbor is moving, this is your shield. It keeps your hands clean and your reputation professional. It’s the go-to phrase for maintaining a peaceful life.

Don't use this with your romantic partner during a serious talk. That will definitely backfire and cause more drama. Avoid using it if your boss asks for a project update. In that case, it sounds like you’re dodging your responsibilities. Don't use it if someone is actually asking you for help. It can come off as cold or indifferent if someone is hurting.

Arabic culture deeply values community and knowing your neighbor's business. However, there is also a strong counter-value regarding personal privacy. There is a famous saying: 'He who interferes in what does not concern him, hears what does not please him.' This phrase is the practical application of that wisdom. It protects you from unnecessary conflict and social headaches.

In Egyptian or Levantine dialects, you might hear مش شغلي (Mish shughli). In the Gulf, people often say مالي دخل (Ma li dakhl). If you want to be very formal, use ليس من شأني (Laysa min sha'ni). All of them carry the same 'staying out of it' energy. Choose the one that fits your current location.