A2 Expression Neutral 3 min read

That's not quite right

Correction

Use this phrase to correct someone politely while keeping the conversation friendly and professional.

In 15 Seconds

  • A polite way to correct a small mistake without being rude.
  • Softens the blow of telling someone they are wrong.
  • Best followed by the correct information immediately after.

Meaning

This is a polite way to tell someone they made a small mistake or that something isn't 100% accurate. It feels much softer and kinder than simply saying 'You are wrong.'

Key Examples

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1

At a coffee shop

Actually, that's not quite right; I ordered a soy latte, not almond.

Actually, that's not quite right; I ordered a soy latte, not almond.

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2

In a business meeting

That's not quite right, the budget for this project is fifty thousand.

That's not quite right, the budget for this project is fifty thousand.

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3

Texting a friend about plans

That's not quite right lol, we are meeting at 8, not 7!

That's not quite right lol, we are meeting at 8, not 7!

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Cultural Background

This phrase is a classic example of English 'understatement.' Instead of being blunt, speakers use words like 'quite' to soften the blow of a correction. It is deeply rooted in the cultural desire to avoid awkwardness and maintain social harmony during disagreements.

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The 'Actually' Combo

Pair this phrase with 'actually' to sound even more natural. Example: 'Actually, that's not quite right...'

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Tone Matters

If you say this with a sarcastic voice, it can sound very rude. Keep your voice soft and helpful.

In 15 Seconds

  • A polite way to correct a small mistake without being rude.
  • Softens the blow of telling someone they are wrong.
  • Best followed by the correct information immediately after.

What It Means

This phrase is your secret weapon for correcting people without sounding mean. It suggests that the person is close to the truth, but not quite there. Think of it like an archer hitting the outer ring of a target. You aren't saying they missed the target entirely. You are just saying they didn't hit the bullseye. It keeps the conversation positive and friendly.

How To Use It

Use it when you hear a fact that is slightly off. You can use it for numbers, names, or directions. Usually, you follow the phrase with the correct information. For example: That's not quite right, the meeting is actually at 3:00. It works best for small errors. If someone says the sky is green, this might be too polite! Use it to nudge people toward the truth gently.

When To Use It

You can use this in almost any daily situation. Use it at a restaurant if the waiter brings the wrong bill. Use it with a friend who remembers a movie title incorrectly. It is perfect for the office when a colleague mentions a wrong date. It shows you are paying attention but aren't trying to start a fight. It is the 'polite correction' gold standard.

When NOT To Use It

Don't use this if there is a serious emergency. If someone is about to pour salt instead of sugar, just say Stop! Don't use it if someone is being intentionally rude or lying. In those cases, being 'soft' might make you look weak. Also, avoid it if the mistake is massive. If someone thinks Paris is in Japan, That's not quite right sounds almost sarcastic because the mistake is so big.

Cultural Background

English speakers, especially in the UK and North America, often avoid direct confrontation. We worry about 'saving face' for the other person. Saying You're wrong can feel like a verbal slap. This phrase acts like a cushion. It reflects a culture that values politeness and 'soft' social interactions. It’s about maintaining a good vibe while still getting the facts straight.

Common Variations

You will often hear people shorten it or add words for emphasis. That's not exactly right is a very common twin. Some people say That's not entirely correct to sound a bit more professional. If you want to be even softer, try I don't think that's quite right. Adding I don't think makes it sound like an opinion rather than a hard correction. It’s the ultimate 'nice person' move.

Usage Notes

This expression sits perfectly in the 'neutral' category. It is polite enough for a CEO but casual enough for a dinner with friends. The key 'gotcha' is your intonation; keep it rising and friendly to avoid sounding condescending.

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The 'Actually' Combo

Pair this phrase with 'actually' to sound even more natural. Example: 'Actually, that's not quite right...'

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Tone Matters

If you say this with a sarcastic voice, it can sound very rude. Keep your voice soft and helpful.

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The British Softener

In the UK, people might say 'I'm afraid that's not quite right.' The 'I'm afraid' part doesn't mean they are scared; it just means 'I'm sorry to tell you.'

Examples

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#1 At a coffee shop
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Actually, that's not quite right; I ordered a soy latte, not almond.

Actually, that's not quite right; I ordered a soy latte, not almond.

Politely correcting a service error.

#2 In a business meeting
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That's not quite right, the budget for this project is fifty thousand.

That's not quite right, the budget for this project is fifty thousand.

Professional way to correct a colleague's data.

#3 Texting a friend about plans
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That's not quite right lol, we are meeting at 8, not 7!

That's not quite right lol, we are meeting at 8, not 7!

The 'lol' makes the correction feel very casual.

#4 Correcting a funny misunderstanding
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That's not quite right—my dog's name is Fluff, not Floor!

That's not quite right—my dog's name is Fluff, not Floor!

Lighthearted correction of a silly mistake.

#5 Correcting a partner's memory
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That's not quite right, honey; we met in 2015, not 2016.

That's not quite right, honey; we met in 2015, not 2016.

Gentle correction in a close relationship.

#6 Checking a bill at a restaurant
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I'm sorry, but that's not quite right. We didn't have the wine.

I'm sorry, but that's not quite right. We didn't have the wine.

Using 'I'm sorry' before the phrase adds extra politeness.

Test Yourself

Choose the best phrase to politely correct a coworker who got a date wrong.

A: So the party is on Tuesday? B: ___, it's actually on Wednesday.

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: That's not quite right

This is the most professional and polite way to fix a small error in a social or work setting.

Complete the sentence to make it sound very soft and polite.

I don't ___ that's quite right.

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: think

Adding 'I don't think' makes the correction sound like a suggestion rather than a confrontation.

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Visual Learning Aids

Ways to Correct Someone

Informal

Blunt and direct.

Nope, you're wrong.

Neutral

Polite and balanced.

That's not quite right.

Formal

Very soft and indirect.

I believe there might be a slight misunderstanding.

Where to use 'That's not quite right'

Polite Correction
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Restaurant Bill

Correcting an extra item.

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Office Meeting

Fixing a wrong date.

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With Friends

Correcting a story detail.

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Learning

Teacher correcting a student.

Frequently Asked Questions

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No, it usually implies they made an honest mistake or are just slightly confused. It's a very 'safe' phrase that doesn't attack someone's character.

Yes, it is very safe for work. It shows you are professional and detail-oriented without being disrespectful to authority.

Almost always! 'You're wrong' can sound aggressive and end a conversation. That's not quite right keeps the conversation going.

The word quite acts as a softener. It changes the meaning from 'Totally wrong' to 'Almost right, but needs a small fix.'

You can, but it might sound funny or sarcastic. If someone says 2+2=100, saying That's not quite right is a bit of a joke because they are very wrong.

Usually, you should say Oh, sorry! or My mistake! and then listen to the correct information they provide.

Not really, but you can say Not quite if you are in a very casual rush with close friends.

Yes, it is extremely common in both American and British English. It is a standard part of polite conversation everywhere.

It's better for facts. For opinions, it’s better to say I see it differently or I don't quite agree.

Forgetting to provide the correct answer afterward. If you just say That's not quite right and stop talking, it can feel frustrating for the other person.

Related Phrases

Not exactly

Used when something is partially true but missing a key detail.

I don't think so

A polite way to express doubt or disagreement.

Actually...

A word used to introduce a correction or a surprising fact.

Close, but no cigar

An informal idiom meaning someone was very near the truth but still failed.

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